Why

Why is it every row we have is about money.. or the lack of or rather me spending money,, I have always done it, mainly to keep us fed and watered and yes i often go overboard,, but the man I have lets me have his card and wont take any responsibilty for anything,, he doesn't ever go shopping, doesn't often buy his own cloths and when I need some extra money I take it,, ok I should ask but I get fed up with the wheres yours whys the bank overdrawn,, maybe casue things are dear now and I dont work,, but because there was no 2 grand for him to use of some concrete he has gone mad at me,, ok I admitt I have spent more that usual on cloths I am getting thinner, I have my hair done,, but he wont help me he wont take control I know I need help, maybe its cause I am not really happy hear although we have been getting better I do think if we have drifted appart,, I told him that I did spend some money to hurt him like he hurt me in january and he through it all back in my face,, I repeated everything he told me,, and he said I made him out to be a wanker,, well mate maybe you are,, but I am not really sure if I can go on like this anymore but equally I dont know what to do about it,, can people this day and age really afford to by food, cloths, petrol ext and save,, I dont think so,, but he said we have too,, but I cant see where we can make any changes without me going to work, with which unless I do nights I cant afford child care,,

I feel trapped right now too,,